Introducing The story
Introduce students to the book, Squid and Octopus: Friends For Always
Share the cover. Introduce them to the two main characters, Squid and Octopus. Determine what students know about these two sea creatures-- what are they, where do they live?
Encourage students to look at images of both the squid and octopus provided (in materials section, abovee):
- What do they notice?
- How are these creatures alike?
- How are they different?
Create a class Venn Diagram to record responses. Add to the class Venn Diagram to illustrate similarities and differences.
Discuss the topic of friendship. Could a squid and an octopus be friends? Why or why not? Allow them to talk about their friends--how are they different and similar.
Discuss the concept of community-
kehillah. Give examples of community (i.e. school community, family, religious community. Ask, “What is a community? What creatures could make up a community under the sea? How are we a community? (We learn together, share, play together, help each other, etc.)
Reading The Story
Read the story aloud, stopping when appropriate to explore illustrations, address comments, clarify, predict and guide students’ understanding of the story and the values of community -kehillah, to Welcome New Friends- Hachnasat Orchim, and Respect- Kavod.
Discussion Questions may include:
- What are Octopus and Squid quarreling (arguing/ fighting) about? “What are some of the things you and your friends quarrel about?” (see The Shema in The Mezuzah and Duck! Rabbit! in Literature Connections, below, to extend this conversation about respectful disagreement)
Why did each creature (Squid, Octopus and Old Turtle) have a different idea about where to wear the mittens? (Each creature has a different type of body and different needs.)
- Who is right? Who is wrong? Can they all be right? Explain.
- How did the characters treat one another? Were they kind? Did they treat one another with respect ? (sharing, playing, listening to one another’s ideas, etc. )
- What is meant by community -kehillah?
- How did the characters in the story show how they are part of special community?
*Consider utilizing
Welcoming Guests lesson plan to extend the learning about building community, the content of that program could be highly relevant to the discussion that emerges.
After The Story
ReTell
Involve students in a Story Retell, of the chapter “The Quarrel”
Remind students that they just read about the ways Squid and Octopus used the “mittens” that Squid knitted. Brainstorm a list of all the things humans can do with a pair of mittens (pick up something hot, cover hands in the cold, make a sock puppet out of it, etc.). Divide students into pairs and distribute a single mitten to each pair of students.
Each pair can use the materials/craft items available and together create either an Octopus or Squid or Turtle sock puppet. Put 3 groups together so that each larger group has a puppet of Octopus, Squid and Old Turtle. Using their puppets, have students work together to retell the story of “The Quarrel.”
After the story retell, have a class “tea party” -- give them time to just talk to one another and enjoy their new friendships and classroom community.
Note: Save the puppets in case students would like to use them to retell the other Squid and Octopus stories in the book (see lessons for Chapters 2, 3, and 4).
Creating a Class Brit:
A fundamental aspect of Judaism is the brit, or covenant, between humanity and G-d. Numerous covenants were established between humanity and G-d in the Torah, including with Noah (Genesis 9:1-17) and Abraham (Genesis 12:1-3). In modern contexts, the brit can be understood as a reciprocal agreement between two or more parties- which is often simply understood as the norms or rules in a classroom. As a way to establish a kehillah, community, based on respect (kavod) and inclusivity through welcoming strangers (Hachnasat Orchim), the class can create their own brit. We suggest narrowing your brit to five principles that best define your community.
Understanding Conflict:
In this story, Squid and Octopus are quarreling. For students having difficulty with this concept and ways that they can be solved, share the Sesame Street video entitled, “Conflict,” featuring Robin Williams